The Clock is Ticking
04/02/2006 03:05 PM
| Family
Today is the 2nd day of April -- the month in which
our child will be born! That's an odd concept to
grasp at the moment. It's hard to truly comprehend
how different our lives will be in just a couple
weeks....or maybe even a couple days! Who knows?
According to a doctor's checkup on Thursday, things
are well on their way to "progressing" for the Little
Guy's arrival. He's making his move!
Because of this, Eric and I are savoring every moment
we have together. It's not that we're not excited
about becoming parents -- we really, really are --
but we're starting to realize that our time together
will be very different soon, and that we really do
like how things are right now, just the two of us. I
think that's a good thing. When the baby comes, we'll
be fully dedicated to him, but we'll still need each
other, and it's nice to know that we at least have a
fairly good foundation of closeness on which to stand
so that we hopefully won't completely abandon our
marriage relationship for that of our parental
relationship with our child. Maybe we'll miss the
times of quiet and flexibility that we have right
now. But then again, maybe we won't. Maybe they'll
still be there, just in different forms and
opportunities. That's my hope, and that's what we're
committing ourselves to -- to maintaining our
relationship together in the midst of our new family
relationships. It's going to be an interesting
experience, and I'm looking forward to it.